We bought another car

which sets our pay-off date (for the car with payments) back. We were looking at September, but that’ll be impossible now. We had been hoping to hold off on car #3 until we got car #1 paid off, but we got a deal too good to pass.

I started the FPU class at church January 2014

I am blessed that our circumtances were “stupid” not “dire”. I had never learned to budget, loved instant gratification, and we had repeatedly tried to clean up only to get further behind. The class was a real eye-opener!

I am getting ready to make the last payment to a credit card for racked up charges. (We have another that we use sparingly for budgeted spending, and pay off monthly now.) The only other Baby Step 2 debt is a student loan for the daughter (15 months, and that will be gone.)

Onward! It sounds hokey, but this process really has provided a level of peace, even while digging in and cutting back.

I just now finally got hold of dh’s cousin

who works with the US military (he was in for years, then out, but I think he may be back in). He’s on his way to Moore to help his folks. Uncle Glen, Aunt Fayrene and cousin Charlie were in their house two blocks from the school where the children were trapped and died when the tornado hit. Physically the three of them are in pretty good shape (Aunt Fayrene has been on crutches for years), emotionally…The house is totaled.

Uncle Glen told Chad, the cousin headed that way, that their biggest problem right now is looters. He is having to stand guard over what little they have left. Uncle Glen is 71 years old.

Chad spoke to his base commander and got permission to not only go help take care of his folks, but to take a truck load of plywood and such to board up the house. Chad is ready to kick butt and take names, looters beware! Due to his military connections the base commander said when he got there to contact him and he’d give the orders to let him in. He’s suppose to let us know what we can do to help. Their faith is strong and that is probably what saved them.

When we first built our house

I bought two of these from “edibl enature” ($16.19 each plus cheap shipping). When I realized I needed/wanted a third, nobody seemed to carry them (and I’m kind of OCD and it had to be exactly the same). I found one on eBay and bought it for $24 including shipping. Now, 7 years later, I wanted another so I found them at Amazon.

For labels, again with my OCD, I needed silver colored labels and ordered them. I ordered his standard spice list with a few of my substitutions. He included a number of blank ones (hence the black marker labels). (I know I could buy my own labels, but either silver or clear round labels aren’t cheap and I know I could never use them up before they dried out in our climate. That’s why I custom ordered them from this guy.)

That said, I really like Sharon’s etched bottles.

Oh, now you’ve created a monster!

I am WANTING / COVETING that look! Oh, my. What’s a girl to do but figure out a way to get it done! I like the whole look of the jars but I wouldn’t necessarily have to have the etched glass. Labels would work for me. I find the cans with the sprinkle tops that a lot of spices come in don’t really seal well to keep them fresh as long as possible and to keep bugs out. Not that we have bugs, but you kwim.

This last week I’ve been busy getting my spices to where not only I

but the guys would know exactly what we have but where everything is. No more duplicate purchases, no more running to several different places to put a Master Mix together, organization. It took me a week because I kept needing to do another step in order to do the one I needed done. Isn’t that always the way? Some of the cupboards I did don’t look that different, some are still pretty full, but trust me I culled out a lot—just ask my local charity!

Not only does it work more smoothly now, but the money I’ll save from not buying duplicate spices and herbs I don’t need will go a long ways on gazelle feed!

I didn’t read through everyone comments

so if this is a repeat forgive me….But my thought is you need to know when to sell what. And where. At garage sales people want bargains. They aren’t going to pay much for just about anything. Online places like ebay and craigslist are always going to be hit and miss.

I don’t know if you belong to facebook, but there are some groups forming (like google) there, You can search for online garage sales or swap n shop groups in your area. I live in a small town and there are about three for my county….which is bigger but most of the other towns aren’t far away. They have rules so make sure you read carefully before selling. I sold a $20 gift card for $15.

It’s been over 10 years

Since I dropped out of the mlm business that my husband and I were involved with. I say “I” dropped out of because I perservered for almost 5 years while my husband abandoned ship after only a year an a half.
My story is pretty much the same as most people involved in the mlm that I was involved in: “saw the plan, got excited, bought the tools, showed the plan, went to functions and than went broke.” It took a couple of years to recover financially. My marriage never really did.
Anyway, I’m on my own now and starting over has gotten much easier this time around. I’ve got a great job, am making great money, supporting myself and have never been happier. However, a couple of years ago I went to an in home selling party and it really intrigued me. I’ve been thinking more and more about it and have even considered doing it.
That is NOT why I am here though. I have read the “rules” and will abide by them!!!!! My problem is flashbacks.
All of a sudden they started hitting me…..all of those insane chants from the rallies and functions. It’s horrible! “buy the tapes, show the plan, get plugged in…….blah blah blah blek!”
I’ve been under my doctors care for depression many many years (my screenname says it all)and at one point my therapist asked me to consider that I may also be suffering from PTSD. I shrugged it off as bunk at that time.
I’m not asking for a medical opinion on this one, but does anyone suffer from post traumatic stress disorder after being involved in a diasterous mlm experience?